Teasing 🍑
This is a short chapter.
Once locked, all he does is fantasize about you. The big changes that you must make in yourself to make a chastity relationship work is to commit to frequently teasing him, like you no doubt did when you first dated, and to having much more frequent sex yourself. The two can be one and the same thing. Having him perform cunnilingus on you while locked up is almost guaranteed to drive to the edge. Fortunately for you, the chastity device will keep him from going over. The more sex you have without letting him come the more he wants you. Be selfish in bed. For example, masturbate while he is locked and let him know or even watch, or tell him to go down on you whenever you feel like it.
Days without any sexual activity or attention should be the absolute exception. It may seem like a lot of work at first, but he will shower you with attention. The hardest thing will be getting that much attention again. Teasing does not need to be a time-consuming activity, and there are an infinite number of ways that you can tease him, both physically and verbally. You don’t need to pretend you’re horny when you’re not, but you should show him that you’re still making an effort.
Low-effort ideas for teasing when you’re not really in the mood:
- Conversation takes very little energy and allows you to increase his arousal without having to do anything. Remind him how his chastity turns you on, how you love the power that the key gives you and that he has to wait until you are ready. Remark that you enjoy his inability to touch himself and how full his balls must be. Ask him if he misses masturbating or having erections. Tease him about his lock-up time; let him know that you’re planning to keep him locked for a very long time, or that you enjoy his chastity so much that you may throw away the key one day.
- Send him naughty texts and photos. Ask him for a “cage check” (photo of his locked cock) when he’s at work.
- Ask him about his most secret sexual fantasies – I guarantee you he has some but is too scared to tell you. Even if you have no interest in fulfilling these fantasies you can use them to tease and arouse him very easily with appropriate comments. Let’s say, just as an example, that he admits he wants you to make fun of his penis size (even if you think it’s perfectly fine); now you know you’ll get a big reaction by saying or texting things like “your dick is too small to be unlocked”.
- You can wear sexy clothes around him, for example miniskirts, yoga pants or whatever you know he really likes. When you’re home you can walk around just in your underwear – he won’t be able to take his eyes off you!
- At night, ask him to sleep naked or bottomless because “seeing him in the chastity cage turns you on”.
- Be physical. Give him lots of kisses and hugs throughout the day. Grab his crotch frequently. Gently squeeze his balls. Kiss his locked cock, or pet it while watching TV.
Keep going! You have finished four of the seven core chapters!